Shantideva writes about the same, and says,
and says, ‘Never, even at the cost of my life, should I renounce such a friend.’
(a spiritual friend who knows wisdom)
in the Siksha Samuccaya, it’s written — (on avoiding disputes)
We should be ready to walk 100 leagues (measurement like miles) to avoid disputes…
We should not say, ‘This was well said, while this wasn’t’
And he says this goes even for Bodhisattvas who have merely had the most=beginning thought, of wishing enlightenment.