In this talk Venerable Thubten Samten shares personal experiences with self-centeredness and its negative impacts.
One notable example involves a project with an acoustician team.
Despite the team’s decision to use regular doors for better acoustics, Thubten Samten insisted on French doors for aesthetic reasons.
This insistence led to confusion and conflict, highlighting the detrimental effects of prioritizing personal preferences over collective goals.
Another incident occurred during a group project where Samten advocated for French doors in storage rooms but failed to involve all team members in the decision-making process.
This led to a lack of enthusiasm and ultimately, the installation of already ordered bifold doors.
Reflecting on these experiences, Thubten Samten recognizes the importance of inclusivity and valuing others’ input.
The conversation emphasizes the need to let go of self-centered thoughts and embrace compassion and open-mindedness.
Thubten Samten encourages practitioners to appreciate the diverse perspectives and ideas of others.
By moving forward with recognition of the brilliance in everyone’s ideas, individuals can foster a more collaborative and harmonious environment.
Thubten Samten’s journey underscores the significance of practicing loving-kindness and considering the merits of others’ viewpoints in overcoming self-centeredness.
