Why giving without expecting anything in return?
A valuable insight from Pomnyun Sunim’s book on the act of giving without expecting anything in return.
According to popular belief, if we engage in numerous acts of kindness, we may receive either favorable circumstances or a more favorable existence in our future life.
Nevertheless, the ultimate outcome is contingent upon our mindset, regardless of the quantity of good deeds we have undertaken.
In general, individuals desire recognition and admiration for their positive actions. However, adopting this mindset can lead to feelings of disappointment and betrayal if their efforts go unrewarded or unappreciated.
Mothers who have lovingly raised their children can feel sad when their adult children do not appreciate their efforts.
Similarly, people who volunteer their time and energy for the benefit of others can become unhappy when they feel their efforts are not recognized.
To find contentment, it is important to let go of the notion that we are doing good deeds and instead focus on the act itself.
The Diamond Sutra teaches that true bodhisattvas do not have the notion of liberating others from suffering, as this can lead to their own suffering.
Bodhisattvas choose to be reborn in Hell instead of Heaven in order to help those who are suffering and lack enlightenment.
They have agency over their own lives, unlike unenlightened individuals who let their karma dictate their actions.
Unenlightened individuals tend to desire receiving without giving and seek understanding without making an effort to understand others, which leaves them subordinate to the expectations of others.
Bodhisattvas, on the other hand, selflessly assist others without expecting anything in return and are liberated from external circumstances.
It is important for us to reflect on our intentions and desires when performing good deeds and release any expectations of rewards.
This will lead to true happiness in the act of giving and generate genuine good fortune for both the giver and the receiver.
