Third Step – Right Speech
After the First Step – Right Understanding and the second step called a Right Mindedness we will go through Third Step – Right Speech.
What is Right Speech?
Right speech is abstaining from following:
- Harsh language
- vain talk
There, someone avoids lying and abstains from it. He speaks the truth, is devoted to the truth, reliable, worthy of confidence, is not a deceiver of men.
Being at a meeting, or amongst people, or in the midst of his relatives, or in a society, or in the king’s court, and called upon and asked as the witness, to tell what he knows, he answers,
- if he knows nothing, “I know nothing”
- if he knows, he answers, “I know”
- if he has seen nothing, he answers, “I have seen nothing”
- if he has seen, he answers, “I have seen”
Thus, he never knowingly speaks a lie, neither for the sake of his own advantage, nor for the sake of another person’s advantage, nor for the sake of any advantage whatsoever.
He avoids tale-bearing and abstains from it. What he has heard here, he does not repeat there, so as to cause dissension there; and what he heard there, he does not repeat here, so as to cause dissension here.
Thus he unites those that are divided; and those that are united, he encourages. Concord gladdens him, he delights and rejoices in Concord, and it is concord that he spreads by his words.
He avoids harsh language and abstains from it. He speaks such words as are gentle, soothing to the ear, loving, going to the heart, courteous and dear, and agreeable to many.
In Majjhima-Nikaya, No. 21, the Buddha says:
“Even, O monks, should robbers and murderers saw through your limbs and joints, whoso gave way to anger thereat, would not be following my advice”.
For thus ought you to train yourselves:
“Undisturbed shall our mind remain, no evil words shall escape our lips; friendly and full of sympathy shall we remain, with heart full of love, and free from any hidden malice; and that person shall we penetrate with loving thoughts, wide, deep, boundless, freed from anger and hatred.”
He avoids vain talk and abstains from it. He speaks at the right time, in accordance with facts, speaks what is useful, speaks about the law and the discipline; his speech is like a treasure, at the right moment accompanied by arguments, moderate and full of sense.
This is called right speech. Now, right speech, let me tell you, is of two kinds:
- Abstaining from lying, from tale-bearing, from harsh language, and from vain talk; this is called the “Mundane Right Speech, which yields worldly fruits and brings good results.
- But the abhorrence of the practice of this four-fold wrong speech, the abstaining, withholding, refraining therefrom-the mind being holy, being turned away from the world, and conjoined with the path, the holy path being pursued-: this is called the “Ultramundane Right Speech, which is not of the world, but is ultramundane, and conjoined with the paths.
Now, in understanding wrong speech as wrong, and right speech as the right, one practices Right Understanding; and in making efforts to overcome evil speech and to arouse right speech, one practices Right Effort; and in overcoming wrong speech with attentive mind, and dwelling with the attentive mind in possession of right speech, one practices Right Attentiveness.
Hence, there are three things that accompany and follow upon right attentiveness.